Assessment
Your celestial coordinates
The assessment maps your current position across all three spheres — your vessel, your compass, your currents. Not a type. Not a diagnosis. Coordinates, and a direction.
What We Measure
Five dimensions of your intimacy landscape
Experience Mapping
What containers have you practiced in? Romantic partnership, therapy, somatic work, meditation, kink, plant medicine, group ritual, creative collaboration. Each shapes your development differently.
Capacity Inventory
Where are you developed? Conflict tolerance, consent fluency, power literacy, erotic presence, repair skill, integration ability. Not what you believe, but what you can actually hold.
Philosophical Orientation
What's your frame? Traditional or esoteric? Body-as-sacred or body-as-practical? Structure-seeking or emergence-trusting? Safety-prioritizing or intensity-seeking?
Blind Spot Detection
Questions designed to surface what's absent, not just what's present. The capacities you haven't considered. The modalities you've avoided. The edges you haven't named.
Nervous System Baseline
How do you respond under activation? Collapse, fight, flight, freeze, fawn — and in what contexts? Understanding your default patterns is foundational to changing them.
What You Receive
Your intimacy constellation
Position Visualization
Your position in 3D space across all three spheres — Vessel, Compass, Current. A visual representation of where you are now in the intimacy field.
Capacity Radar
A diagnostic chart of your six core capacities — presence under intensity, consent fluency, power literacy, desire without entitlement, conflict resilience, integration.
Modality Affinity
Which traditions and practices align with your current configuration? Where might you find what you need to develop? Not prescription — resonance mapping.
Developmental Edges
Where are your growth edges? What capacities are underdeveloped relative to others? What might be your next step? Direction, not destination.
Coming Soon
The assessment is in development
We're building something careful — not a quick quiz, but a genuine diagnostic tool. Sign up to be notified when it launches.
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Sample Questions
The kind of thing we ask
"When conflict arises with someone you love, what happens in your body first?"
"In your most meaningful intimate experiences, did you feel more like you were holding space or being held?"
"When you encounter a practice or tradition that challenges your worldview, do you feel drawn toward it or do you notice yourself seeking reasons to dismiss it?"
"Think of a time you felt genuinely powerful. What made it possible? What happened after?"
"What do you do when desire arises for something you can't or shouldn't have?"
What This Is Not
- — A personality test
- — A diagnostic of pathology
- — A measure of how "good" you are at intimacy
- — A fixed identity to adopt
What This Is
- + A map of current position
- + A tool for self-understanding
- + Orientation for development
- + The first act of service
While you wait
Explore the library to understand the modalities and capacities the assessment will map.